Christmas in a time of war

 Last week I received an email notifying me that a friend of mine had commented on another friend’s Facebook post. I usually ignore these notices; I receive so many of them they irritate me. But in this case, because they were both good friends, I decided to get in on their conversation and I opened Facebook.

My friend from Virginia had posted a cartoon, as she frequently does. It showed a group of people in a subway train, heads down in personal concentration, but instead of their cell-phones, they were all reading books. The subtitle read, “On a different planet.” Very funny.

Then I went to the comment of our mutual friend from Scotland. Her response jolted me. She didn’t think the cartoon was funny at all. It wasn’t the content, but rather the fact of telling jokes in this particular season. She rebuked her American friends (like me) who were sending her “Merry Christmas” messages. “This in NOT a merry Christmas!” she ranted, referring to the war in Gaza and the extreme suffering of so many.

This touched a cord in me and I wrote back immediately thanking her for her concerns. I’ve been thinking about it ever since.

Here in the retirement community, Christmas cheer vibrates off the walls. The staff has outdone itself with a large glowing Christmas tree in the lobby and other trees in every public place. Snowmen, Santas, elves, and nativity scenes inhabit every empty space. Lights sparkle in the greens adorning the walls. Here on the 5^th floor we residents have taken charge and our lobby is festive and each apartment door festooned with family heirlooms. It’s Ho Ho Ho everywhere you look.

I don’t want to sound critical. All this really does make me happy. Hal is part of a musical trio—two ukuleles and one harmonica (his). They preform in the different neighborhoods of the community. I went with them when they played their music in the memory-care unit, the place where residents with dementia live. I watched the faces while the trio played. During songs like “Santa Claus Is Coming to Town” and “All I Want for Christmas Is My Two Front Teeth,” everyone was smiling and swaying, some even tapping their feet. I would certainly not begrudge these people their childhood memories. They also smiled at “Joy to the World.”

The last two nights the beautiful Christmas concerts placed the emphasis of the season where it belongs, on the Christ child. I thrilled to the music.

But back to my friend’s concern. My concern as well. How to carry together the two diverse realities this Christmas season—the very merry celebrations all around us and the extreme violence and suffering on the other side of the globe.

Some of my friends have told me they no longer watch the evening news. Too negative, it affects their spirit. I can’t adopt that perspective. Hal and I regularly watch our news program, talk about it, and pray together. We need to know what’s happening because it matters.

Prayer seems like such a simple answer, but I know that a small person’s (me) prayer has power with God. At least I think I know that. But I can’t help but wonder—what difference does it make? I pray that God “make wars cease to the ends of the earth” (Psalm 46:9) and the next day find out that the bombing has intensified.

The people of Palestine, and the people of Israel too, don’t celebrate Christmas. It’s not part of their faith traditions. But this is the place of the first Christmas. That first Christmas season was not merry, although it was joyful to a few chosen witnesses. Joyful and mysterious. While it was not actively a time of war, the Romans were oppressing the Jews and suffering abounded. War was on the way.

The original Christmas story gives clues that help integrate these two realities. Years previously the Spirit had revealed to the prophet Isaiah that the babe would be born and that one of his strange names would be Prince of Peace. 

Prince of Peace
Isaiah 9:6

Silent night, we sing.
Sleep in heavenly peace.
A story book song
for a star-studded dream.
That night wasn't silent
pax romana not withstanding.
Bethlehem teamed with people,
impatient, demanding,
wanting to be in their own homes.
Inns throbbed with activity,
wine flowed, and in one dim corner
a woman moaned in childbirth.
That night wasn't silent,
and neither are ours.
The world convulses
in a chaos of crises.
The newscaster's voice is grim,
and people fear the dark.
Here at my house
my grandson cries out in nightmare,
and insomnia stalks these rooms.

Prince of Peace,
you came to Bethlehem
in the clash and crash of life
as it is.
Show us your face.
Teach us the strength of your tranquility,
the power of your humility
         that bent to babyhood
         and still bends to us.

Prince Jesus,
baby and Lord,
we kneel.
Speak Shalom to our world.
Here.
Now.

Lord Jesus, have mercy on the people you love in Gaza, Israel, Ukraine, and Russia. Let wars cease. Let lives be rebuilt.

Amen.

Merry Christmas.